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Rock Your Vision by Jenny Chang

There is always one important question that runs through a newly engaged couples mind,

"Should I hire a coordinator? or Can I do this on my own?"

Realistically, every Bride & Groom do not contract a coordinator to help them plan their big day, but the ones who do will tell you the benefits of having someone who knows the business in your corner.

Whether you decide to hire a full-service planner or simply a day-of coordinator. You will find there are two distinct types of planners; with two distinct planning styles.

Outside-coordinators (Rock N' Events) OR In-house coordinators

So What's The Difference?

It's really as simple as the name implies. Outside-coordinators work alongside your venue, while an in-house coordinator will work for the venue.

So as a couple, who is the best event planning choice for you?

We broke it down to the key elements we have discovered as differences between an outside-coordinator versus an in-house coordinator. (With our experience and working with in-house coordinators.)

-If you decide to hire an in-house coordinator, typically you are hiring their Catering Manager. This means that stylized, designed vision you had may be completely your responsibility.

ROCKNEVENTS (and outside-coordinators) are typically design centered & specialize in detailed themes and ideas! As event/wedding designers we never expect our Brides & Grooms to have their entire vision complete. It's our job (and our favorite part of the planning process) to find those small details that will make your wedding stunning. As your designers, we are here to compliment our couples not complicate the wedding process.

-An in-house coordinator is typically seen as a bonus for booking the venue. Which they may be, but this simply means they work for the venue not your vision.

ROCKNEVENTS is 100% about you and your vision. From the moment of booking to your big day, we are 100% focused on bringing your vision to life! Again, we love designing! We are as addicted to Pinterest as you are and we'd love to see that secret board no one knows about! Our bonus is working for you! We love hearing all your ideas, no matter how insane they may seem. When we meet our couples we can't help but become so obsessed with their vision and how to make it come to life! It's never a bonus for our clients to work for us! It's our HONOR to work with you!

-Like any business, a venue is ultimately focused on doing business. Which includes pumping up their Preferred Vendors, whether or not they fit your wedding style.

ROCKNEVENTS  also has a Preferred Vendor list, but at the end of the day we're here to bring your vision to life. If none of our Preferred Vendors fit your style we'll research your options until we find "The One".  It's as simple as that. No one should feel pressured to hire a photographer because, "They've photographed our venue countless times." You should be confident in every vendor you book and never wonder if they endorsed them for anyone other than you! When working with an outside coordinator you immediately widen your vendor network. We are constantly connecting with new vendors and have no proximity limit to our design style!

-Lastly, when working directly with a venue, chances are you will simply become a calendar date. You may meet and discuss event details, but that personal on-on-one touch may never become a factor.

At ROCKNEVENTS we pride ourselves in our personal design style. We love to get to know our Brides & Grooms and in-corporate details into their day that they may not have thought of! We love to finding out the smallest details from how you met, to the proposal to how you each envision your big day! No wedding should be designed simply because it worked for the last couple. Your big day is all about what makes you two unique an how it celebrates your love!

As we've said before, Rock N' Events is in the business of L O V E. We can't help but fall in love with our couples and how they envision not only their big day, but the rest of their lives. No couple should ever feel pressured or cornered in any wedding decision! So, whether you decide on an outside or in-house wedding coordinator, find the best fit for YOU and Rock your Big Day!

*All photos include feature real Rock N' Brides & Grooms*

 

Rock Your Love Language! by Jenny Chang

  • A small note that found its home on the bathroom mirror just to tell you how beautiful (or handsome) you look.
  • A day when the clothes are folded, that cabinet is fixed and the shower-head no longer spits water in every direction.
  • A bouquet of roses delivered  just in time to save a rather boring work day just to show they were thinking of you.
  • A night spent in with nothing but a re-run movie and a big bowl of guiltless popcorn.
  • A night spent in each others embrace, no words, just you two.

It's not uncommon to find your heart fluttered a little harder when you skimmed one of these scenarios.

The reason (If you haven't already crammed on this book-goodness): The 5 Love Languages.

We may not be experts on love, but we are in the business of love! So we make it our business to make sure love is always on our (and everyone's) mind!

The 5 Love Languages was written by Gary Chapman and has inspired and reinforced relationships by simply telling them to discover.

The beauty in love languages? They apply to every relationship you will ever have! Romantic, familial, friendship & even work can benefit from one of these languages! (Obviously, touch should be avoided in work-related instances. We don't want any calls from HR!) It's all about finding how others receive and give love/support/encouragement.

So what are the 5 Love Languages?

Words of Affirmation

Because sometimes we just need a gentle reminder.

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Acts of Service

Ryan Gosling kinda killed it with this one. *take notes men*- Build a house

Receiving Gifts

A little something that says," This reminded me of you."

Quality Time

Your undivided attention is all I need.

Physical Touch

A little reminder that, "I am here" without saying a word

Taking the online quiz is your first step in finding what your TOP love language is! Make it a fun dinner conversation or take the quiz together! That way you can both see and understand each others love language.

Love is a beautiful exchange between two people and should be celebrated everyday! Not just on your wedding day. Find your love language and share it!

 

Written In The Stars by Jenny Chang

Imagine it! Guests are filing in search of the best spot to get the first look of the bride, while candles flood the floor and flicker as if to signal a silence before the ceremony begins. The sun finds it's home for the night just below the horizon and effortlessly cues the bridal party. Your groom awaits you haloed by the ceremony lights and your bride glowing in the last of the sunlight. Could you imagine a more romantic moment? An exchange of love witnessed by your family, friends and the moon. A night wedding has never sounded so good!

We have always been obsessed with the idea of a night wedding. Each beautiful photo framed by the brilliant night sky and all its stars. But, we live in Los Angeles and those stars don't get as much play time as they should. (If you happen live each night with a star filled sky, stop showing off! Just kidding, we love you and you are one step ahead of us city people!)  So how does one achieve a star filled night wedding in the city? *Cue the Rock N' Events team*

Whether you bring the starlight indoors or enjoy the open air, we designed a universal nighttime/sunset wedding inspiration that is sure to bring out your inner night owl! Candles, moonlight and the love of your life! It's like a Nicolas Sparks novel! (hold the typical Nicolas Sparks ending please!)

The typical wedding ceremony begins at 4pm and our night ceremony would start significantly later based on the time of year, but we love the opportunities that come with it! Great lighting is your best friend throughout this planning process! Lighting can be anything from candles, tea lights, fairy lights, gobo lighting or just the natural skyline! The winning balance is between natural light and electric!

RNE Tip: When meeting with potential photographers. Ask them how comfortable they are with shooting primarily at night. Having blown out photos (too much flash) or having photos that are too dark to see any form of detail is hard to fix after the wedding. So have an open conversation about your expectations and the overall setting your photographer will be shooting.

Having a night wedding allows couples to really have fun with their theme and the activities for guests! Cocktail hour could include a smores bar or warm drinks! Making your wedding unique is half the fun! The other half? Getting Married of course!

We hope you enjoy our nighttime/sunset wedding designs!

*Some of the photos are not depicted at night & are simply for inspiration! Use that imagination!*

We hope you were as inspired by these nighttime/sunset designs as we are! Happy planning!